Wellbeing
To support the wellbeing of students, it’s crucial to encourage parents to provide emotional support. Listening to their child’s concerns without judgment and acknowledging their feelings can make a big difference. Reassuring students that it’s okay to feel anxious is important. Additionally, maintaining a balanced routine with adequate sleep, nutrition, and physical activity can help manage stress. If a student is particularly struggling, seek support from the school as a first step. If concerns persist and the student is showing physical or mental health signs such as poor sleep or a change in appetite, seeking additional professional help is advisable.
Recap – How to support wellbeing
- Emotional support
- Healthy routines
- Professional help
Communication
Communication between parents and students is key during this time. Encouraging open and honest dialogue helps students feel heard and supported. Regular check-ins to discuss feelings and concerns can help identify any issues early on. Positive reinforcement is also essential; parents should celebrate their child’s efforts and achievements, no matter how small.
Recap – How to foster string communication
- Open dialogue
- Regular check-ins
- Positive reinforcement
How to help when the unexpected happens
If exam results are not as expected, it’s important for parents to stay calm and composed, as their reaction can significantly influence their child’s response. Exploring alternative pathways such as retakes, vocational courses, or apprenticeships can provide students with various routes to success. Parents should seek guidance from school advisors to explore the best options for their child and help them create a plan for the next steps, whether it’s further education, training, or entering the workforce. It is important that parents remind their child that this is one moment in their life and not their whole future.
Getting them to reflect on their personal growth and learning experiences up to this point, while supporting them to acknowledge the importance of resilience and remembering their self-worth is vital. We have all seen the number of successful people that endorse this point, many often sharing their stories of disappointment that turned round into a new opportunity for success. Richard Branson, Deborah Meaden, Simon Cowell, Jeremy Clarkson, Alan Johnson and Julie Burchill to name a few.
Recap – Reasonable steps to help if the unexpected happens
- Stay calm
- Explore options
- Seek professional guidance
- Create a new plan ahead - remind them this is one moment not their whole future
Read the Parent Kind Report for more information
For further advice and guidance, the 2021 Parent Voice Report by Parent Kind highlights the importance of parental involvement in education and provides insights into parents’ concerns and experiences. Additionally, directing parents to resources such as the National Careers Service, Young Minds, Childline, and local mental health services can offer additional support.
By following this guide, you’ll be well-equipped to support your students and their parents through this challenging time. Remember, your role is crucial in helping them navigate these changes with confidence and resilience.
